Many parents want the summer break to be more than just fun—they want it to be meaningful, too. They look for activities that keep their children engaged while also helping them learn something new.
The paradox is that some of the most valuable things children learn have little to do with school subjects. They are not about letters, mathematics, or acquiring new information. They are about learning how to cope when things don’t go according to plan.
“Parents often ask me what children actually learn through non-formal education. My answer is that, more often than not, they learn the things that never appear in a workbook: how to collaborate, how to wait their turn, how to express an idea, how to manage frustration, and how to find solutions when something doesn’t work the first time,” says Cristina Farcaș, Deputy Head of Nursery.
Children Don’t Learn Only When Someone Teaches Them
As adults, we often associate learning with explanations and instructions. For children, however, learning works differently. A child can learn an incredible amount simply by building an obstacle course with other children, organizing a game, or trying to solve a practical problem.

For example, when a group of children is asked to build a shelter using natural materials, the challenge isn’t really about construction. It’s about negotiation. It’s about who comes up with the idea, what happens when your idea isn’t chosen, and how you move forward when the structure collapses and you have to start over.
“As adults, we often focus on the outcome. Children, however, experience the process. And it’s within that process that the most valuable learning takes place,” says Cristina Farcaș, Deputy Head of Nursery.

In moments like these, children develop skills they will use throughout their lives: communication, collaboration, problem-solving, adaptability, and perseverance.
The Skills You Won’t Find in a Workbook
In recent years, there has been growing discussion about the skills children will need for the future. Yet these are often presented as abstract concepts.
In reality, they develop through everyday experiences—when a child has to share materials with classmates, present an idea to the group, try something new and discover it doesn’t work the first time, or find a solution without an adult immediately providing the answer.
“Parents are sometimes surprised when we tell them their child has made significant progress, even though we’re not talking about letters or numbers,” Cristina explains. “For us, progress also means seeing a child ask for help when they need it, express their point of view, or find the confidence to try again after experiencing failure.”
These skills don’t develop overnight. They are built gradually through repeated experiences and learning environments that encourage children to practise them again and again.
Why Children Need Situations They Can’t Fully Control
One of the defining trends of recent years has been the increasing tendency to structure children’s lives. We carefully plan their schedules, solve their problems, and step in quickly whenever difficulties arise. But developing independence also requires space to experiment, make mistakes, and learn from them.
“We clearly see the difference between children who have had opportunities to try things independently and those who have been helped every step of the way,” says Cristina. “It’s not because some children are more capable than others, but because they’ve simply had more opportunities to practise.”
This is precisely why non-formal learning experiences are so valuable. They place children in authentic situations where there isn’t always one correct answer, but there are countless opportunities to make decisions, experiment, and learn from experience.
Nature: A Remarkable Teacher
Many of the most meaningful non-formal learning experiences take place outdoors. Nature offers authentic challenges and sparks curiosity in ways that few other environments can.
A simple walk can inspire questions about plants, insects, or the changing seasons. A fallen log can become a bridge, a ship, or a castle. A puddle can be the starting point for an investigation into water, weather, and the natural world.
“When children are in nature, we notice that their questions arise spontaneously,” Cristina says. “They become little researchers without even realizing it. They want to understand why a leaf has a particular shape, why insects appear after the rain, or how an anthill works. Curiosity emerges naturally—we don’t have to manufacture it.”
In early childhood education, these experiences are especially valuable because they encourage children to observe, explore, and build their own understanding of the world around them.
What Educators Notice Afterwards
The benefits of these experiences don’t show up as grades or test scores. Instead, they become visible in children’s behaviour. Educators notice greater independence, stronger self-confidence, and a greater willingness to embrace new challenges.
“Perhaps the most valuable thing we observe is children’s willingness to make mistakes,” Cristina adds. “Children who have had plenty of opportunities to explore understand that they don’t need to know the right answer immediately. They’re more willing to experiment, rethink their ideas, and try again.”
These are gains that may be harder to measure than a test result, but they are fundamental to children’s future learning, personal growth, and long-term success.
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The second pillar is emotional safety. Here, educators and counselors serve as a secure anchor. Through authentic connection, active listening, and consistent support, they create the atmosphere of trust that allows children to move from “survival mode” into “learning
mode.”
In recent years, we have also noticed an important shift in parents’ perspectives. More and more families understand that nursery is not simply a place where children are supervised, nor just a stage before “real school” begins. It is an environment that has a profound impact on how children will approach learning later in life.
“The issue with the National Evaluation is not that an exam exists, but that it ends up disproportionately defining a child’s value at a stage when they are still developing. In reality, at 14 we should be assessing much more than the ability to correctly reproduce content. We should look at progress, autonomy, the way a student thinks, argues, collaborates, and transfers what they learn into real-life contexts. In high-performing international systems, assessment is continuous and diverse: interdisciplinary projects, portfolios, presentations, personal reflection, and applied learning. Because the world these children are entering will not reward only strong memory, but the ability to adapt and learn continuously.”
“Children need clear academic standards and rigorous assessment. But in a healthy education system, an exam should not reduce a teenager’s value to two grades and a few hours of pressure. At 14, children are still building their identity, discovering their strengths, and learning to trust their own potential. School should help them not only achieve results, but also understand who they are, how they think, what they can build, and how they can continue learning in a constantly changing world.”
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“During recruitment, beyond the rigorous assessment of professional competencies, we are also concerned with the deeper dimension of compatibility with Avenor College. We tell candidates the Avenor story and seek to understand whether we share the same vision of education and the same professional standards. For us, excellence in teaching goes hand in hand with responsibility, including a strong commitment to safeguarding principles and the ability to create a safe environment in which every child is protected, respected, and supported in reaching their full potential. Professionalization begins with competence, but it is strengthened through values and through the responsibility we assume for the impact we have on every student, every day,”
“Being in my first year at Avenor College, I discovered that professional development is not merely a theoretical concept but a genuine driver of everyday activity. The Performance Management process and the establishment of Professional Learning and Development (PLD) goals helped me define a clear direction from the very beginning. I feel that this system provides concrete support during the lessons I observe. I have learned tremendously by monitoring my progress and adapting my teaching methods. The impact is visible directly in the classroom, in my interactions with students from preparatory grade through fourth grade, where I can apply new techniques that keep them engaged, active, and curious. It is a continuous learning process that gives me confidence that I can make an authentic contribution to every child’s development.” –
“For me, professional development is a deliberate process that helps me maintain high standards in my day-to-day work. In a school that places such a strong emphasis on holistic development and the wellbeing of the entire community, I continually seek opportunities to refine my skills through professional learning. This has allowed me to participate in programs from the school’s professional development portfolio, such as Teaching with Love and Logic and From Values to Action: Making SMSC Visible in Secondary. This year, I also chose the AI Unplugged: Teaching Smarter, Not Harder course offered by Avenor, which is already helping me reduce part of my administrative workload and giving me more time to focus on the other important aspects of my role as a teacher and school counselor.” –
Authentic professional development requires dialogue and collective reflection, explain Avenor representatives.

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Last but not least, the forest is where we teach their first lessons in civic responsibility. By learning how to keep the forest clean, children begin the transition toward critical and creative thinking, understanding that their actions have a direct impact on the environment.
Starting nursery is both an important beginning and a significant ending. It marks the start of a child’s experience within a wider community and a period of active exploration of the world around them. At the same time, it signals the end of a stage in which the child has been primarily exposed to the family environment.
For children aged 1.9 to 5, this year’s edition extends the programme to four weeks and places a strong focus on developing independence through activities carried out beyond the traditional classroom, in the forest or during excursions. For the Young Explorers group, dedicated to children aged 1.9 to 3, the programme also includes engaging workshops led by special guests, as well as weekly swimming activities – 




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The event also brought forward an essential topic for modern families: how fathers’ presence during the early years lays the foundation for long-term trust and connection. This bond does not require elaborate plans or sophisticated activities.